Yoga Confrontation

I was surprised when one of my yoga instructors approached me after class. On Sunday, one of the participants of the meditation confronted me when I mentioned my husband put me on a "financial diet." She implied that he was oppressing me and if I work I should spend whatever I want. What she didn't know is that I do have to have more self-restraint as far as spending goes. And me getting a separate account will allow James and I to be closer. Less fights about money. It works. She came from an oppressive marriage and was fighting for all her possessions. I feel for her. My prayers are for this girl tonight. She deserves better. And in my heart, even though she semi-embarrassed me, I would want her on my side.